The Christian Attrition

The term attrition has 5 usages in the English language. According to Webster’s and the Cambridge dictionary shares the following:

1: sorrow for one’s sins that arises from a motive other than that of the love of God
2: the act of wearing or grinding down by friction
3: the act of weakening or exhausting by constant harassment, abuse, or attack
4: a reduction in numbers usually as a result of resignation, retirement, or death
5: the people who leave an educational or training course before it has finished

Now, maybe I am a bit sensitive to the shrinking reality our community faces these days, however – I have notice a trend. Less businesses, a decrease in population, shrinking congregations and church attendance, a lack of interest in going to bible study and Sunday school, a decrease in students enrolling in Christian schools in our area…. the list can go on.

I got to thinking – is it just a sign of the times? Is it that the difference between being nominal or surrendered? Is it that discipleship is just not happening? Is it that Satan seem’s to be winning? Is it a priorities issue? Is it we are so ingrained with the world’s systems that we treat Christianity as a welfare system?  I would venture to say a little of all of this, but it is deeper – it was prophesied by the Apostle Paul that this was going to happen – attrition among Christians. Look at the following verses:

2 Thessalonians 2:3 Concerning the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ and our being gathered to him, we ask you, brothers, not to become easily unsettled or alarmed by some prophecy, report or letter supposed to have come from us, saying that the day of the Lord has already come. Don’t let anyone deceive you in any way, for that day will not come until the rebellion occurs and the man of lawlessness is revealed, the man doomed to destruction.

The Greek term for rebellion here is apostasia. It means defection from the truth, falling away, and forsake. Its root definition means something separative, that is, specifically divorce.

1 Timothy 4:1 The Spirit clearly says that in later times some will abandon the faith and follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons.

Here the Greek term for abandon is aphistēmi. It means to remove, that is actively instigate a revolt, to desist, desert, depart, fall away, withdraw self. Its root definition means cessation, separation, departure, reversal from abiding, standing, covenant, continuing.

2 Timothy 3:1-5 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God—having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with them.

And this verse contains what the characteristics of those who defect and depart from truth – even to instigate others to do so. Then they follow falsehood, demonic teachings, and become selfish and just plain narcissistic in every facet of life.

It occurred to me that part of the Christian attrition is due to the prophetic reality in which we live, but also that the selfish part is entering into the equation in the following ways:

a consumer mindset – what I get out of it more than what I put into it.

a self-centered purpose – using God for our own purposes instead of asking Him His purpose for us.

personal fulfillment – seeking fulfillment in what can give verse finding fulfillment in God.

prayers centered around decisions – seeking God’s direction and bless what we already made our mind up about.

It may seem harsh – but this is the spiritual reality we are facing today. What can be done to prevent this Christian attrition, to stay the course, to not become part of the tragic statistic?

It goes back to what Jesus said: “I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. (John 15:1-2) He also said “A man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard, and he came seeking fruit on it and found none. And Jesus also said to the vinedresser, ‘Look, for three years now I have come seeking fruit on this fig tree, and I find none. Cut it down. Why should it use up the ground?’ And he answered him, ‘Sir, let it alone this year also, until I dig around it and put on manure. Then if it should bear fruit next year, well and good; but if not, you can cut it down.'” (Luke 13:7-9)

I also recently ran across devotional Adrian Rogers – and wow did it cut me to the heart like a pruning tool. I believe I have shared recently either at church and or elsewhere.

Commitment to Surrender. “Your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.” (Matt. 6:10)

“I was in Romania talking with my translator, Pastor Joseph, and said, “You’ve been to America many times. Tell me about American Christianity.” He said, “The key word in American Christianity is commitment. Commitment is a relatively new word in the United States. It can be found in some dictionaries, but it came into usage in the 60s and American Christians have gotten stronger and stronger in using the word commitment.” I asked, “What’s wrong with commitment?” He said, “When a new word comes in, it always replaces an old word. I searched to find the old word that commitment has replaced. The old word is surrender.”

In commitment, you decide what you’re going to do and commit yourself to it. When you surrender, you lift both hands and say, “I’m under Your control.” Do you see the difference? In commitment, you’re in control. In surrender, God’s in control. He is the King and He is supreme. We simply say, “Your kingdom come; Your will be done. I am under your control.”

What are some ways you have sought control? What are some things you need to surrender to God? What does it look like to live in daily surrender to God?” 

There is no doubt that we need to surrender to God’s, His pruning so we can grow, bear fruit, and not fade into the obscurity of Christian attrition.

 

By Jesus’ Grace,